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A Year in Review: Year Five of This Solo Journey

09/27/2017 by Kristin 6 Comments

This week, Be My Travel Muse turns five!

It really snuck up on me, guys. But another September has rolled around, marking 5 spins around the globe since I left California with a one-way ticket to Bangkok in my hand and a dream in my heart.

This blog has changed my life. It made me an entrepreneur, helped me visit over 50 countries, and connect with people the world over. It made me realize how passionate I am about female empowerment, and frankly, made me a better person.

This year was all about gratitude, growth, many new places, falling in love and subsequently nursing a broken heart, and a lot of wondering where the future could or should lead to.

Unlike years past, which I spent surrounded by other backpackers, I spent a ton of time alone this year. It’s not something that I saw coming but I’m starting to realize that times when I’m solo can be the most wonderful of all. I never feel closer to myself or my higher purpose than when I’m truly, completely, alone.

On the fifth birthday of Be My Travel Muse, here’s looking back at the year in travel, love, work, and play:

Hawaii

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Loving Lanai

When I got a call to come to Hawaii in October to do some photography, I jumped at the chance while simultaneously wondering if going to such a romantic place solo might be depressing.

It was the opposite. I went for an adventure there, taking my photography to a new level, driving a 4×4 for the first time over rocks to hidden cliff jumps, and absolutely loving the freedom. It made me realize that even places that seem like they’re only for honeymooners can be awesome for solo travelers, too.

Ireland

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Taken on the Wild Atlantic Way road trip

I returned to Ireland later in the month for a fourth time to explore more of the Wild Atlantic Way. It’s one of my favorite places in Europe and though I found driving there to be mildly terrifying, to be surrounded by friendly Irish people again was such a breath of fresh air. If you get a chance, definitely visit Ireland. It’s so damn beautiful.

California

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Home sweet home

Up until recently it would have pained me to share this, as returning to California from November to February was never in my plans. I’d signed a lease in Berlin with the intention of finally settling there more permanently, however when I reconnected with someone from my university days after Burning Man, I fell head over heels in love. So it was goodbye Berlin, and hello again, California.

It was beautiful at first. I hadn’t felt that magical high since my very first love, before I knew what heartbreak felt like. I was sure I’d found the one in, let’s call him D. At long last my searching was over, or so I thought.

I was mystified when it started to fall apart. My old demons came out that I thought I’d conquered, and it showed me that I still have a lot to work on.

As a favorite poet of mine, Warsaw Shire, wrote: “You can’t make homes out of human beings.”

How true that is.

I never wrote about that on here, but I did extensively on Thought Catalog, my outlet for my Taylor Swiftian love and heartbreak writing, if it interests you.

At the end of it I can’t help but feel anything but grateful. The break up led me to one of the biggest periods of growth in my life. It made me seek even deeper spirituality, encouraged me to dive even deeper into my work, and seek to heal wounds that I didn’t realize I still had.

I’ll always think of D very fondly for this. It was exactly what I didn’t realize I needed.

Alberta

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Standing at Vermillion Lake in Banff

In between my time back home, I popped up to my northern neighbor for the first time and realized that Canada is totally freaking awesome. I drove in the snow for the first time too, went skiing in -30 temperatures, and vowed to return and explore every Canadian Province – a promise I would continue to make good on in July.

Idaho

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Lovely Driggs, Idaho

D and I headed up to Idaho to spend New Year’s with some of his friends, and it turned out to be one of the most beautiful winter destinations I think I’ve ever seen (though to be fair, winter is fairly new to me). There were hot springs, great food, good vibes, and lots of snow shoeing. It’s the last time I remember us being happy together – memories I’ll always hold dear.

Switzerland

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This hot tub, though

I headed to Switzerland for a third time in life but for the first time in the winter. I was fresh off of heartbreak and I wish I could have been present and enjoyed it more. That said, we had some wonderful powder days and I improved my skiing chops in the Alps, my favorite mountains.

Tanzania, Rwanda, and Uganda

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At the Ngorongoro Crater in Tanzania

I jumped at the chance to take a Land Cruiser across Tanzania, a country I’ve spent a cumulative month in now, along with Rwanda, and culminating with the gorillas in Uganda. It’s where I started doing video, something I’ve come to really enjoy. It’s easy to find inspiration in such an inspiring place.

Of all of the continents on planet Earth, I always feel the most connected with humanity in Africa. I love the people, the animals, and the beaches. I’m already planning a return for this coming winter. I can’t stay away.

Berlin

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Ich leibe Berlin (can you spot the heart?) Photo by Mike Corey

I felt a bit like the prodigal daughter coming back to my apartment in Berlin in April. I’d signed a lease in September and yet I’d spent just a few weeks altogether in the flat I’d searched so ardently for the summer prior. Yet there I was in April looking at bare walls and wondering why I’d been paying rent for a place I didn’t even live in.

But I love that apartment. It’s my sacred place. I still love this city so much and now I finally do feel committed to spending more time here.

Amsterdam and Denmark with Mom

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insert heart eyes emoji

Each year thus far, my mother has joined me somewhere around the world and this year we fulfilled a lifelong dream of hers to see the tulips in Amsterdam. I hadn’t expected to enjoy walking through a garden so much! If you find yourself there in spring check out the tulips.

Utah and Arizona

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Mother nature made a perfect frame

My friends asked if I would be willing to come home to go to a music and yoga festival, Lightning in a Bottle, together in May and I figured why not combine that with a trip through Utah and Arizona? I’d always wanted to go and explore my own backyard more.

I did most of the trip solo after spending a few days with my mom and since I went to so many remote places, I didn’t see many other people. I hiked, solo rappelled down a rock face, I listened to Ram Dass’ Be Here Now talks and You are a Baddass by Jen Sincero, and cracked open Tools of Titans by Tim Ferris, who I’m a huge fan of.

I felt so invigorated after that trip. There’s something so healing about the desert, which was very much needed after coming back to California brought a flood of emotions from the breakup with D back to the forefront of my mind.

Kyrgyzstan

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This is Ala-Kul Lake, Incredible!

The mountains called, and I had to go. Central Asia had been a blank spot in my mind’s eye and when another photography and videography opportunity came up I figured why not? Trekking is my favorite thing and being off the grid in the mountains is always like therapy.

I was blown away. The mountains looked like Patagonia and the Alps combined. It was also incredibly tough. Over eight days we summited 6 passes for a total of almost 8000 meters in elevation gain and loss. It was just a guide, a porter, and I in the wilderness. It felt like going into the wild. It also is some of the work I’m the most proud of, and led to my first viral video! That was a pretty nice affirmation that video was the right thing to take on.

Switzerland

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Hey, perfection

Just a couple of days after landing from Kyrgyzstan I was on a plane to visit some good friends in Zurich. I kicked myself for stacking my schedule like that and robbing myself of a summer in Berlin but who did I have to blame other than myself?

Besides, seeing the friends I’d made in Mozambique, and visiting Oeschinensee and Lavertezzo was all so wonderful. Seriously, how is Switzerland really that beautiful?

Manitoba

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Fields of gold (somewhere outside of Winnipeg)

A couple of days after Switzerland it was back to North America for me. everyone said Manitoba was boring but they were so wrong. It has over 100,000 lakes and polar bears! How can that be boring? Canada, man, I love you so much.

Alaska

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I love you, Alaska

It’s not hard to pick what the standout of the past year has been – it’s Alaska. It’s the first place where I realized how amazing it is to hike completely off the grid with no trail, no people, no facilities, and nothing but nature. I’ve never felt that sensation before – probably most people haven’t! But we should, we really all should.

It’s also where I formed a new business venture with Pete, a wilderness guide who I’ll lead tours with in 2018. What an exciting trip that was for so many reasons!

Back to Berlin

I’m writing this to you from Berlin today. Over just the past week and a half since I’ve been back, this city has come to mean so much more to me than I ever realized before. I’m connecting with people in new ways, and wondering if maybe I should just stay put for a while and really enjoy what this place can continue to give me – stability, and a home.

Looking back over the past year, I feel incredibly grateful, and moving forward, I want to find more ways to help you do the same.

I want you to know that you can do this, too. It’s never too late to reinvent yourself, to live the life you’ve dreamed of, and to strike out on your own and create something new.

In the next post, we’ll talk more about the year in blogging, for those interested.

Happy travels, and thanks so much for being part of this journey. It wouldn’t mean anything without you!

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  1. GG says

    09/27/2017 at 8:33 pm

    Happy 5th birthday! And what a productive year, both personally and as a business owner! Hope the tour idea works out, I think you have something unique to offer. And between your art talent, people and writing skills (thought catalog writing is a wow, like a novelist and poet wrapped up in one) further ideas will bloom which is needed to keep a business going and you growing. And thanks for sharing and including all of us in your incredible journey (both physical and spiritual). It is a truly symbiotic relationship.
    When reflecting your past experiences and love along with your embracing your solo experiences, hope you don’t mind me thinking of you as a free spirit of sorts. You have a general plan and purpose, like this successful business, but the details are filled in by where your soul takes you. I love my free-spirit (hate to label them that way, the whole idea is that they are free of labels) friends and I wouldn’t want them any other way, and they should love themselves for who they are. BTW one is married (it wasn’t a goal, just happened) and like everything else the marriage is unconventional while the love is at least as strong (others are not married and happy that way, don’t fit a mold)….strange thing I learned was my misconception that one solo traveler should likely match up better with another as a couple; however in the conventional (emphasis on conventional) sense it would be the opposite, now you go from solo to being around someone all the time!. These friends bring the best out of me. We all have the need for liberation, this release, whether it be a day, week, year, forever. I just discovered today after thinking about this that my best friend in the world Jay is a free spirit, how blind I have been and that may have been the reason for the pull for the friendship as I used to be so confining.
    The best description of what I mean about free spirit and love is at this site “honest green jeans” article titled “loving the free spirit”. Funny thing is there is something on this in the thought catalog but don’t think it is as well done (“what it means to be a free spirit”). Sorry, if I over-analyzed a person I have never met.
    Oh my, found this link too just before hitting “send’! “The Heartbreak of a Free Spirit” on “American Girl” site which is about you! I think that spirit might have been kindled further after your last love experience as you delved into so many incredible solo adventures. For what it is worth, look how you handled it this time versus the last, so constructive! What becoming a whole person can do!

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    • GG says

      09/27/2017 at 9:04 pm

      Correction: Actually the “thought catalog” free spirit one is good, got mixed up with something else.

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    • Kristin says

      09/28/2017 at 1:56 am

      Thanks GG. This was definitely a way healthier breakup than ones in the past, and I’m grateful for it in the end. I don’t mind the free spirit label.

      Reply
  2. Shelby Morrison says

    09/29/2017 at 11:00 am

    You’ve done so much! That must feel good to see it all out like that, even the sad memories made you stronger. What a great idea 🙂 Happy birthday and looking forward to more. Also –your photos are amazing. I want to learn so much from you! You’re killing it!

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    • Kristin says

      09/30/2017 at 2:36 am

      Thanks so much Shelby! That’s a really humbling comment because it’s so easy to feel like it’s never enough, which is too bad, because we are all on a path that’s leading us to where we’re meant to go.

      Reply
  3. Kristin says

    10/01/2017 at 2:11 pm

    Freedom-preneur! Love that

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