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The Peaceful Perfection of The Karoo in South Africa

02/20/2015 by Kristin 18 Comments

Have you ever felt truly alone? Not in the sense of lack of solidarity with your fellow man (or woman), but alone in the sense of pure, sweet freedom? Nothing around you, nothing encumbering you, what seems like the entire world at your feet as nothing obstructs your view in any direction, and not a soul around to destroy the beautiful moment unfolding before you?

It’s a rarity, to be sure. That kind of infinite space and the beautiful feeling of being the only human on earth, even though deep down you know it’s not really true, creates the kind of euphoria that I haven’t often experienced.

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The Karoo

This overcame me as I stood at the center of the rock labyrinth on the Kingwill farm known as “The Rest” near Nieu Bethesda in the Karoo, South Africa. The clouds rapidly danced around the mountain peaks surrounding me, culminating in sweet desert rain right as I reached the end of the maze. It was the kind of coincidence I think they call, ‘fate’.

Paula had told me that if I went into the labyrinth with a question, perhaps I’d come out with an answer. I was skeptical. I didn’t go in with anything in mind. I elected to try to make it meditative, but even that proved difficult. Eventually I just started looking around me and walking.

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Sitting on the edge from time to time

It was so naturally beautiful, it quieted my mind. Around halfway through, odd emotions welled up in me that I didn’t expect. Suddenly I looked up at the mountain before me and felt like I had an answer, even though I hadn’t known the question: I just want to create something beautiful. I just want to help rather than harm. My purpose is to live simply and fully.

I couldn’t believe she turned out to be right.

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A transformative place

The Karoo is known locally as the African bush, but I would call it a desert.

The thing about deserts is, most people skip right over them thinking they couldn’t have much to offer.

No trees? No beach? No little blended drinks with paper umbrellas!? How is that a vacation?

That’s why it’s such a well-kept secret. That’s why you won’t see sunburnt tourists clouding your nature. It’s the best kind of vacation there is – complete desolation, if you can handle it.

…and I think you can.

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Paula and her husband, E, took over her family’s farm when it was on the brink of a sale when her folks advanced in age, beyond the ability to herd the cows (happy, free-roaming cows!) that make up the family business.

Leaving a city life behind in Cape Town five years ago where she worked as a drama therapist, and her husband in film, they took on a monumental task: learning how to handle livestock with practically no agricultural education or background whatsoever. She had left the farm for schooling when she was young, and therefore did not grow up agriculturally inclined.

What was it like at first?

“Climbing up a vertical rock face with no safety harness,” says Paula.

Who is one of few people in the world who can say she survived a black mamba snake bite, by the way.

Basically, she’s badass. Ask her to tell you the story when you visit her.

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Hiking in the morning mist with the incredibly friendly dogs on the farm (and Paula, not pictured)

I was a bit hesitant when I arrived because I was there to not only experience the farmstay, but also participate. I had received an email the day prior asking if I wanted to go cattle herding. On foot.

You’re really asking a Los Angeleno to go cattle herding?! Well, okay then! We’re both in for a surprise I’d say!

“Is it difficult?” I wondered aloud.

“How’s your common sense?” Paula asked. “If you just use common sense it’ll be easier than you think.”

I told her I’d like to think I have all sorts of common sense but if you simply look at all the scars on my legs you’ll see how clumsy I am. I think they say common sense isn’t all that common for a reason.

Yet it turns out cattle herding is actually fun. We dropped down and snake-crawled under electric fences, jumped over streams, and tiptoed around marshes, using sticks in either hand to appear as a moving fence. I was shocked the cows fell for it, and each time one would look at me suspiciously, as I edged closer, she’d go in the direction I wanted, just like that.

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Me vs. a fence: resemblance is uncanny

My short stay on the farm could easily have turned into weeks. To really get away from it all and to disconnect actually helped me to reconnect with my purpose and reevaluate what is important to me. I had the time, space, and silence to think about it.

That’s so important to do every now and then. Wouldn’t you agree?

When you go to South Africa, even if you’re just passing through, will you see the Karoo? There are mountains, beaches, lions, and zebras to see in the rainbow nation, but a girl who has traveled the world has this to say – few things in life have affected me as profoundly as the Karoo did.

I wish I could articulate the butterflies in my stomach, the overwhelming feeling of peace, the sudden lining up and organization of things in my mind that were previously running amok, and the peace of mind I emerged with better than I am right now.

I guess all I can say is it’s the real deal.

Do it yourself: 

  • Drive in as part of a road trip. It’s almost impossible (or rather, highly inconvenient) to get there any other way. The closest town to The Rest is Nieu Bethesda
  • Check out some of the workshops at Paula’s farm. I actually built her website for her because I wanted to contribute in some way given how much I felt The Rest had contributed to my South Africa experience. (Let me know if you like it!) 
  • Explore more of the area after you leave the farm. Do some hiking in Graaff-Reinet and check out the Giant Flag (I talk about that in the next post!) When in GR definitely stay at Buiten Verwagten Guesthouse and eat at Pioneers Restaurant for Springbok and Ostrich Carpaccio
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  1. Nikita says

    02/20/2015 at 12:50 pm

    That sounds absolutely perfect. I love that feeling of emptiness, of complete desolation… I think it’s necessary every now and then to reconnect.

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      02/21/2015 at 12:42 pm

      Yes, definitely!

      Reply
  2. Ayngelina says

    02/21/2015 at 12:48 pm

    You’ve just put South Africa higher up on my wish list.

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      02/21/2015 at 10:55 pm

      Yay! I’m sure yours is quite long like mine is!

      Reply
  3. Diana Edelman says

    02/22/2015 at 5:31 am

    Based on all of your South African photos and stories, I want to go. Immediately. What a great story!

    Reply
  4. Michelle | Lights Camera Travel says

    02/22/2015 at 9:24 pm

    Woooooooow you must have felt so connected to the earth here… Connection in the disconnection, so to speak.

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      02/23/2015 at 6:03 am

      Exactly. I definitely did. Great place.

      Reply
  5. Federico says

    02/23/2015 at 7:29 am

    Monday morning, and your post has made me wish I was far away from where I am now…ideally where the top shot was taken.

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      02/23/2015 at 7:42 am

      Where are you now? Maybe that’s nice, too.

      Reply
  6. Camels & Chocolate says

    03/06/2015 at 9:49 pm

    It’s funny, I feel like I saw SO much of South Africa the first time I was there for three weeks, but it’s such a huge country, I barely scratched the surface (and no, I didn’t make it to Karoo).

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      03/11/2015 at 7:05 am

      After two months I realize I’ve seen very little. Seems to be true of every country though. The longer I’m there, the more I’m aware of what I’m missing.

      Reply
    • David Bernhardi says

      08/16/2016 at 5:41 pm

      The Little Karoo is perhaps even better with little towns like Barrydale and Ladismith (stop off at the hot springs at Warmwaterberg on the way) and then on to Oudtshoorn and the Cango Caves. The Swartberg Pass links the the Little Karoo and the Great Karoo and takes you to the very interesting town of Prince Alfred. There is “soul” in the Karoo and night skies to marvel at.

      Reply
  7. Katie says

    03/07/2015 at 8:31 pm

    Unbelievable countryside … South Africa’s rural areas are so awe-inspiring!

    Reply
  8. Nick says

    08/09/2015 at 10:06 am

    Great read, found your blog while trying to figure out what I’ll need for my trek into the Karoo in September. Looking for to great road trip with an friend and colleague. We did one last year from Cape Town to Kruger National Park. Will post again on my return.

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      08/10/2015 at 4:54 am

      Awesome! Let me know how it goes. I just loved the Karoo. So beautiful, orange and rugged. Cape Town to Kruger is a good run!

      Reply
  9. Jamie MacRae says

    08/15/2016 at 8:57 am

    I am from Canada and the first time i was in the Karoo was during a road trip three years ago. We ended up staying in Nieu Bethesda…and I was hooked!

    I returned the next year and rented a small home in Nieu Bethesda for seven weeks in June. Our Canadian summer, but South Africa’s winter. It was a complete escape for me and one that was greater than I imagined it would be. I made some wonderful friends while I was there….real down to earth Karoo people. I did not want to leave, but I needed to return to Canada to resume work.

    I would encourage anybody who is travelling to South Africa to spend some time in the Karoo…your life may not be the same after.

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    • Kristin says

      08/15/2016 at 3:23 pm

      Wow that’s amazing! I’ve toyed with the idea of staying there for an extended period of time. Seems like it would be so good for the soul. It’s cool to hear a firsthand account of doing just that.

      Reply
  10. NTripping says

    06/28/2017 at 4:07 am

    Hey Kristin,

    sounds like a great adventure! You’ve missed one of the best experiences, though – driving through the Swartberg Pass, as someone already mentioned 🙂

    I visited only the Klein Karoo this year but I’m sure I’ll return to South Africa for more road trips! This country is just so perfect to travel 🙂

    Cheeers,
    N.

    Reply

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