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The Ultimate Minimalist Flying with Baby Packing List for 2023 (+ Printable)

07/11/2023 by Kristin Addis Leave a Comment

When it comes to traveling with your baby, it can feel like a whole new world – I know this firsthand.

Last week, we took our son Felix on his first cross-country flight (also his first flight ever. Go big or go home, amiright?). I’m proud to say I aced it when it came to packing for him, and we breezed through the airport as well as one can with a baby in tow. Plus, we only packed two bags and had two carry-ons, including the diaper bag.

Here’s everything we packed and more importantly, what we left at home when flying with our baby:

Table of Contents

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  • What to Carry On
  • Carriers
  • What to Pack in Your Suitcase

What to Carry On

When picking a carry-on, our main concerns were comfort, maximizing space, and ease of use.

There is an overwhelming amount of diaper bag backpacks to choose from at many price points, so after much research, we went with the affordable Jeep Ultimate Freedom Diaper Bag backpack and I’m happy to say we LOVE it.

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flying with baby packing list
flying with baby packing list

Is it as cute as some of the other brands? No, but we don’t care about cute, we care about functionality, comfort, and durability. There’s a side pouch specifically for wipes, which we gush over the convenience of multiple times per travel day. On the other side, there’s an insulated pouch for bottles, as well as 10 other pockets and a portable changing mat. We also love that it easily fastens to a stroller handle. Here’s what goes into it:

  • One set of wearable breast pumps (read my full review on the Elvie and Willow Go)
  • Enough Diapers for 2 days of changes (to avoid having to buy expensive airport diapers with chemicals we’re not happy about if a flight gets canceled). We prefer Coterie.
  • One set of wipes – We prefer compostable Water Wipes.
  • At least one toy from his Lovevery playkit.
  • 2 bamboo onesies.
  • Earth Mama Diaper Balm.
  • Two glass Philips Avent bottles (clear bottles are great for TSA).
  • Two Comotomo Silicone bottles.
  • Portable bottle washer (I LOVE this thing – it’s simplified bottle and pump washing so much!).
  • Small Humangear Soap container with Seventh Generation fragrance-free dish soap.
  • 2 Burts Bees burp cloths.

Amazingly, all of that fits into the diaper bag backpack!

We also no longer fly without a stroller that can fit in the overhead bin.

On my most recent solo flight with Felix to Vancouver, I was able to test the ErgoBaby Metro+ Deluxe (gifted), which has a comfy seat for him, a handle bar, nearly full recline, a nice big storage area, and a sturdy enough handle to hang the heavy diaper bag from.

I was able to bring this on all of the flights, including the tiny two-seater, and it folded up small enough to fit in the overhead bin. For getting him on and off the flight myself, not having to wait for gate check, and making sure the stroller didn’t get damaged, I wouldn’t do it any other way!

Carriers

Felix was just shy of 3 months old when we took our first flight, so Garrett and I decided to ditch the stroller in favor of wearing him throughout the airport and the flights. We continued that until he was about 8 months old at which point we switched a stroller whenever possible since he was getting so big.

In the beginning, I loved the Solly Baby Wrap (click for 10% off or read my full Solly review here), which I think is the softest, most comfortable, and has the best weight distribution for infants, and the Artipoppe Zeitgeist carrier for the patterns.

On my most recent trip I tested out the ErgoBaby Aerloom carrier (gifted) and love it for forward carrying and back carrying my one-year-old (read our full ErgoBaby review here). It looks like it’s crocheted, is breathable, and has the easiest adjustment for forward carry of any carrier I’ve found. There aren’t any major changes needed to make it work for back-carry as well. I like that both are so easy with this one and that it’s light for travel.

Solly Wrap
Artipoppe Zeitgeist carrier
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Ergobaby Aerloom

If you’re bringing a stroller and carseat, your options are to check as luggage, gate check, or bring the carseat on board if you’re buying your baby their own seat. I go into more detail on how to deal with a stroller, carseat, and TSA in this post.

What to Pack in Your Suitcase

Matching beanies!

Sky’s the limit when it comes to all of the things you could use or need for a baby. For my sanity, we went as minimalist as possible and managed to make Felix’s items fit into one side of a large suitcase. Here’s what we brought:

Sleep

We have the SNOO smart sleeper at home, and while a godsend, we obviously can’t fly with it. The following has helped Felix get good sleep when we travel:

  • Depending on the situation, we uses the bassinet in his Nuna Mixx stroller or this foldable travel bassinet when he was younger, and now use the Guava Lotus travel crib.
  • Baby Shusher.
  • Hatch White Noise maker and Light – this has saved us in multiple loud situations we didn’t anticipate.
  • Magic Merlin’s Sleep Suit – I don’t know how it works, but it works!
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Baby Delight Snuggle Nest Portable Infant Lounger
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Baby Delight Snuggle Nest Portable Infant Lounger
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Hatch White Noise maker and Light
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Baby Shusher

Clothes and Diapering

  • Clothes will naturally depend on the temperature where you’re headed and how many days you’ll be away. Thankfully these are usually small and easy to stuff into a suitcase, so I’ll leave that up to you.
  • We bring enough diapers for at least half the trip so we don’t have to run out immediately and buy more.
  • Another wipes package.
  • Waterproof bed pad for any furniture or beds he might be hanging out on, because accidents happen.
  • 3-4 more burp cloths.
  • An extra pacifier if you use them. We like MAM brand.
  • Baby Nail Clippers 20-in-One nail file.
  • Bambino Mio Portable Changing Mat.
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Burts Bees burp cloths
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Bambino Mio Portable Changing Mat

Tummy Time

We love his Lovevery play gym at home, and bring elements of whatever play kit is at his current age when we travel. The Looker play kit has a foldable contrast card holder and organic cotton toys he loves to play with.

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Lovevery play gym
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The Looker play kit

Bathtime

This one was tricky. We didn’t feel we could bring his normal bath tub, which we put on the seating area in our shower. Since we normally just take a family shower and bathe Felix at the same time, we do the same when we travel, and use whatever towels are provided.

If you plan to do this, keep the water temperature lower than you’re used to, and keep in mind it can be a slippery situation, so be extra careful with baby. Usually one of us holds him while the other runs the Fridababy DermaFrida The SkinSoother over him. To simplify, we all use the unscented Honest Company body wash.

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Honest Company body wash
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Fridababy DermaFrida The SkinSoother

That’s it! As he gets older, I’m sure we’ll switch out some of these items for other age-appropriate ones, and the type of trip will certainly dictate what we do and do not bring, but for our most recent trip, this gear was perfect.

To save space, one could easily cut the diapers and wipes and just buy upon arrival, or for those who co-sleep, the bassinet isn’t necessary. It will all come down to your personal must-haves.

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Happy travels!

Read Next: 30 baby travel essentials, and their affordable alternatives!

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About Kristin Addis

Kristin Addis is the founder and CEO of Be My Travel Muse, a resource for female travelers all around the world since 2012. She's traveled solo to over 65 countries and has brought over 150 women on her all-female adventure tours from Botswana to the Alaskan tundra.

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