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9 Most Romantic Hotels in California

05/10/2024 by Kristin Addis

The ingredients that go into making a place one of the most romantic hotels in California might vary. However, they must include a healthy dash of coziness, a fantastic view, and enough on-site amenities that you don’t have to leave the property if you don’t want to. I’ve stayed in my fair share of boutique hotels throughout California, and there are a few that stick out in my mind as romantic havens. These are a few of mine and other travel bloggers’ favorites:

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  • 1. Sacred Rock Inn
  • 2. The Inn at Newport Ranch
  • 3. Fairmont Grand Del Mar
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  • 4. Alila Ventana Big Sur
  • 5. Mt. Ada Bed & Breakfast
  • 6. Lost Whale Inn
  • 7. Ojai Valley Inn
  • 8. Hotel Corque
  • 9. The Madonna Inn

1. Sacred Rock Inn

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Though I stayed here with a toddler, it was no less romantic than it would have been without him. I mean, look at that tub! Not only can you have the bubble bath of your dreams at Sacred Rock Inn, but there’s also a jacuzzi with an ocean view so you’ll never miss out on a chance to take in the beauty of the Pacific.

This luxurious hotel earns its name as a sacred place full of magic and beauty–from its twisting staircases to its serene yoga space and numerous balconies so close to the water that you can feel the salty spray of the ocean. To top it all off, the hotel’s Greenwood Restaurant offers an unforgettable meal perfect for a special celebration as a couple. Whether you’re coming for an anniversary or a romantic weekend away from home, Sacred Inn wins in the category of overall lovey-dovey atmosphere. You won’t want to leave!

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2. The Inn at Newport Ranch

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Although I stayed here with some of my girlfriends, there’s no denying that The Inn at Newport Ranch oozes romance from every crevice. Overlooking the Pacific in Fort Bragg, The Inn at Newport Ranch sits on a cool 2000 acres, complete with a Fireside Spa, over 20 miles of hiking and biking trails, horseback riding, and a farm-to-table restaurant.

Remember what I said before about never needing to leave the property? This cozy inn embodies the “all in one” nature of a romantic hotel. The Inn at Newport Ranch is decked out with all the cozy fixings: fireplaces, hot tubs, saunas, and a wide array of uniquely decorated rooms, suites, and full homes. This is the ideal spot for outdoorsy couples who want to spend most of their time enjoying nature and appreciate a bit of luxury at the end of a long, adventurous day.

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3. Fairmont Grand Del Mar

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Situated on 400 acres of prime San Diego real estate, the Fairmont Grand Del Mar is the perfect romantic retreat for couples who want to getaway from it all. From the gorgeous grounds to the Mediterranean-style architecture, you’ll know at first glance—this is a special place. 

In fact, it is the epitome of luxury, boasting a 5-star spa, 5-star golf course, and Addison, the only Michelin rated 3-star restaurant in San Diego. Foodie couples will also want to cozy up by the fireplace and dine on delicious California cuisine at the other restaurant on the property, Amaya.

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Each of the spacious rooms has a large terrace or balcony, tubs for 2, plush robes, and super comfortable beds. During the day, relax with a couple’s massage, lounge at the adults-only pool, walk through manicured gardens, enjoy afternoon tea, or take a romantic horseback ride to see the spectacular views. – Denise of Chef Denise

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4. Alila Ventana Big Sur

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Alila Ventana Big Sur, an exclusive adults-only resort sprawled across a captivating 160-acre property, stands as the ultimate romantic hotel along the untamed California coast. The resort boasts spacious and secluded ocean view and forest view suites offering a haven of intimacy and luxury with an unparalleled connection to nature.

Guests are treated to a delicious culinary journey with seasonal farm-to-table fare at The Sur House or the Ventana Glass House. Beyond the serene accommodations and gastronomy, Ventana is a sanctuary for wellness, featuring couples massages, Japanese hot baths, spa services, a fitness center, and a pool that overlooks the vast expanse of the Pacific Ocean.

For another unique romantic experience, couples can opt for Ventana glamping in safari tents, complete with luxury mattresses, heated blankets, and a private fire pit, set underneath the towering California redwoods. The resort’s proximity to Big Sur’s main attractions, such as Pfeiffer Beach and numerous hiking trails, ensures that every moment is filled with romance and adventure, making Ventana Big Sur an idyllic retreat. – Jenifer Byington of The Evolista

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5. Mt. Ada Bed & Breakfast

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Catalina Island is known as the Island of Romance, and nothing is more romantic than a stay at the Mt. Ada Bed & Breakfast.

Built in 1921 as the home of William Wrigley, Jr. and his wife Ada, the hotel offers sweeping views of Avalon Bay and the Pacific Ocean from its mountainside perch 350 feel above the town. Mt. Ada Bed & Breakfast has only six guest rooms, each luxuriously appointed and beautifully decorated (some with fireplaces!), making for a truly intimate and romantic getaway. 

But a stay at this former private mansion does not just include a room. Guests also have full access to an expansive living room and wrap around terrace, as well as a fully-stocked butler’s pantry. Breakfast, lunch, and evening wine and cheese are provided every day, as well as use of a golf cart to buzz into town and enjoy all of Catalina Island’s many restaurants and activities. We found this amenity at Mt. Ada Bed & Breakfast to be the best of both worlds; it was wonderful having the freedom to get around on our own from a property that is otherwise very isolated.

With its stunning island setting, exquisite service, and luxurious ambiance, the Mt. Ada Bed & Breakfast is easily one of the most romantic hotels in California. – Gwen of California Family Travel

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6. Lost Whale Inn

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This inn is at the top of romantic spots along California’s northern coast in the quaint town of Trinidad. Nestled in the forests up above the Pacific Ocean, Lost Whale Inn has a breathtaking and secluded setting paired with unforgettable ocean views. Anyone looking to escape to nature, unwind, and connect with their significant other, look no further. It’s the perfect base for exploring the nearby giant Redwood forests or taking a stroll along the gorgeous beaches of Trinidad.

The inn has 8 guest rooms all with sea influenced themes such as the Sea Lion Room, Beluga Whale Room, and Humpback Whale Room. Your stay includes a delicious gourmet breakfast, afternoon wine with snacks, and very attentive staff without being intrusive. One of the most romantic activities is watching the sunset on the back deck with a glass of wine whether for an anniversary, honeymoon, or a couples getaway. – Vanessa Shields of Traveling Ness

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7. Ojai Valley Inn

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Situated on 220 secluded acres in the hip and secluded town of Ojai, and backdropped by the Topatopa Mountains, Ojai Valley Inn has what seems to be an endless array of activities, from its premier golf course, horseback riding, several sublime pools, tennis courts, and best of all their luxurious Spa Village.

One of the things that guests truly enjoy are the seven different dining venues ranging from poolside to exquisite fine dining. Service is personal and attentive with servers circulating throughout the property to bring whatever casual or poolside treats you may want.

Our favorite romantic moment was having a glass of wine under the oaks decorated with small glowing lanterns while waiting for the Pink Moment, when the mountains glow pink from the setting sun. – Lori of Travlin Mad

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8. Hotel Corque

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If you are looking for a romantic couple’s getaway in California, look no further than Hotel Corque in Solvang. This wine-themed hotel is located in the center of Solvang, a little Danish town on the Central Coast. Hotel Corque is within across the street from bakeries, restaurants, shops, and wineries, making for a charming walkable town.

What makes Hotel Corque romantic are the spacious rooms with plush king-sized beds and large bathtubs, and views of the Santa Ynez Mountains. It’s also right next to the Vinhus, a wine shop, where you can buy a bottle for you and your partner to share and snuggle after a long day of exploring. Also, you can go on a quick day trip to Santa Barbara for even more romantic activities, like wine tasting, picnicking on the beach, and dining at upscale restaurants! – Hannah of Hannah on Horizon

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9. The Madonna Inn

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The Madonna Inn is a popular and overly romantic resort in San Louis Obispo, California. It was first opened in 1958 by Alex Madonna and his wife, and is still a family owned business.

The resort is known for its kitschy, over-the-top decor. Their main exterior colour is pink, which can be found everywhere from the restaurant dining room to their tennis court. Many people passing by stop there for a restroom break simply because they want to see this famous establishment.

All 110 rooms at the Madonna Inn are unique and they all have a theme. Each of them also have a name, such as “Bridal Falls”, “Love Nest” or “Sugar and Spice”. The rooms are quite romantic and many of them have a rock waterfall shower. We also loved the little soap cake in the bathroom which was shaped like their own bakery’s signature cake.

All the amenities at Madonna Inn kept us busy, such as the spa, pool, bakery and their shops. They also offer horseback riding and pink bicycles for their guests to use during their stay. The Madonna Inn is truly one of a kind! – Paula of Gone With the Gastons

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Though I’m a firm believer that lifelong memories can be made in the mundane, everyday moments, spending time together becomes even more special in places like these. Whether you’re a couple that loves exploring nature together, or you’re more into cozying up next to a fireplace with a warm drink to play board games, I hope you find your ideal romantic California getaway here.

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About Kristin Addis

Kristin Addis is the founder and CEO of Be My Travel Muse, a resource for female travelers all around the world since 2012. She's traveled solo to over 65 countries and has brought over 150 women on her all-female adventure tours from Botswana to the Alaskan tundra.

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